Mary-Jo Duffy with Rooney, a Border Collie mix, and, on her lap, her French Bulldog, Dixie.—Ben Shaw photo
When a badly abused pit bull named Ellie came into Mary-Jo Duffy’s life, everything changed. Instead of a career in fashion merchandising, she went toward a new life — one that led her to a job as the dog trainer for Ridgefield Organization for Animal Rescue.
Duffy grew up in the farmland and tobacco fields of Simsbury, where there were plenty of animals.
“I always loved animals. I never thought of being a veterinarian, or a vet tech, however, as I was not good in math and science,” she said.
Since most of her friends were getting a business degree, she did so as well. Since she also enjoyed fashion, she decided on merchandizing sales.
“People are shocked to see my closet full of fashionable suits, when I now seem to wear nothing but jeans and sweatshirts.”
To relieve the stress from her job in sales, Duffy decided to volunteer at the largest ASPCA unit in the country, in New York City. “When I walked into this facility, I immediately knew that this is where I belonged, even though I had to keep my regular job to survive in the city,” she said. After being at the facility for a while, Duffy became certified as a dog trainer and then a paid employee.
While working at the ASPCA, Duffy saw Ellie, an abused pit bull, and it was love at first sight for both. Ellie took a lot of work, but it was all worth it.
“I have loved all of my rescue dogs, but there has never been a dog in my life like Ellie.” (See her blog, pawsuppdt.com.)
Ellie went on to be a role model for many dogs, showing city children that all pit bulls are not bad. Ellie was also in a fashion show wearing fashions by Betsey Johnson and was a friend to Mary Tyler Moore, Matthew Broderick and Sarah Jessica Parker.
The same week that Duffy adopted Ellie, she met the man who would become her husband, Matt. She knew that he was the man for her when they returned home from a date and found that Ellie had destroyed his couch due to separation anxiety. When Matt was not upset about what Ellie had done, she knew she had found her soulmate.
When Matt’s job took Duffy and their two children to Maryland, she continued to work as a dog trainer. She had a way with these animals that no one else did. She was able to take the most difficult dogs, understand them, and teach them to be good pets through holistic means.
Duffy also began to train the volunteers in animal behavior so that they were doing more than just feeding or walking dogs.
When the Duffy family decided to move back to Connecticut, she opened a store in Georgetown called Paws Up, where she worked with dogs and their owners, and sponsored playdates.
She enjoyed her new business, but needed to find a new location when the building had to be torn down.
The new open door in Duffy’s case was the discovery of ROAR and acting as its volunteer dog trainer. For 10 years now, she has been training dogs and volunteers and establishing new programs for therapy dogs.
She currently has 30 dog-and-partner teams that go into all six elementary schools in Ridgefield, schools in the surrounding towns, nursing homes in Ridgefield and other towns, and the hospitals.
In addition to her reading therapy dogs, Duffy recently started a veterans program where she now has two teams successfully working.
There is no end to the ideas Duffy has for building better relationships between people and animals.
“My goal is to train dogs to have good manners so that people will want to adopt them and give them good homes. The sooner that these dogs are adopted, the sooner we are able to bring in new dogs and find good homes for them as well.”
Duffy has never met a dog that she did not like, nor one for which she has found no potential.
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